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How to Share Travel and Accommodation Details with Guests

By Build The Day··6 min read

Getting guests to your wedding is half logistics, half reassurance. People want to know how to reach you, where they can sleep, and where to leave the car, and they want it in plain language they can find at 11pm the night before. Do this well and your phone stays quiet on the morning. Do it badly and you spend the run-up answering the same three questions on repeat.

Here is how to lay it all out so guests can plan their trip without bothering you.

Decide what guests genuinely need to know

It is tempting to write a small novel. Resist it. Travelling guests are scanning, not reading, so keep to the details that actually change what they do.

For travel, that means:

  • The venue's full address and postcode, plus a what3words or a pin if the postcode is unreliable.
  • Nearest train station and roughly how far it is by taxi, with a sensible fare estimate.
  • Whether there is parking on site, how much it costs, and if cars can be left overnight.
  • The single best driving route, especially if a sat nav tends to send people the wrong way.

For accommodation, give two or three options at different prices rather than a long list. One that is lovely, one mid-range, one that is cheap and cheerful. People appreciate having the choice made simpler, not wider.

Put it somewhere guests will actually look

A line buried in the invitation gets lost. A WhatsApp message scrolls away by Tuesday. The reliable home for this information is a wedding website, because it is one link, it never runs out of room, and you can change it whenever something shifts.

Build The Day includes dedicated travel and accommodation sections, so you can list directions, parking notes, hotels and a station all on one page that guests can pull up on their phone at the platform. Add the link to your invitations and any save-the-dates, and point people back to it whenever they ask.

If a few older guests are not online, print a small card with the essentials and the website address. They get the basics in hand, and the full detail is a link away for anyone who wants it.

Make accommodation easy to book

The kindest thing you can do is reduce the legwork. Most couples either arrange a room block or simply recommend a handful of places, and both work.

A room block means ringing a hotel and asking them to hold a set of rooms under your names until a cut-off date, often a few weeks before. Guests quote your name or a code and get the rate. You are usually not liable for unbooked rooms if you ask for a courtesy hold rather than a guaranteed block, so check the terms before you sign anything.

If a block feels like overkill, just list your recommendations with a one-line steer on each. Something like "ten minutes from the venue, does a good breakfast" tells a guest far more than a star rating.

Detail to includeWhy it matters
Price rangeGuests can pick what suits their budget
Distance from venueDecides whether they need a taxi or can walk
Cut-off date for any blockStops late bookers losing the rate
Family rooms or cotsCrucial for guests bringing children
Last orders on taxisSaves a 1am scramble after the party

That last one matters more than people expect. In a rural area, taxis dry up early and the local firm may need booking days ahead. Flag it, and ideally drop the number on your website, and you spare a tipsy huddle of guests stranded at the gate.

Keep it current as things change

Plans wobble. The hotel sells out, the road gets dug up, the cut-off date arrives. The advantage of having everything in one online place is that you fix it once and everyone sees the new version. Compare that to chasing down a printed insert you posted to ninety households three months ago.

Build a habit of a quick check every few weeks: is the parking note still right, are the recommended hotels still taking bookings, has anything about the route changed. A two-minute update beats a flurry of confused messages later.

If something significant shifts, like a recommended hotel closing or the parking arrangement changing, send a short note pointing people back to the updated page. Do not bury the change; say what moved and where to look.

Mind the people travelling furthest

Guests coming from abroad or the far end of the country are working with more unknowns, so give them a little extra. A line about the nearest airport, rough transfer times, and whether trains run on the wedding day itself can save someone a stressful afternoon.

It is also worth flagging anything seasonal. A coastal venue in August books up months ahead. A city-centre hotel during a big sporting weekend triples in price. A quiet word early, "the good hotels go fast for this date, worth booking soon," is genuinely useful and costs you nothing.

Get the travel and accommodation details clear, parked in one place and kept up to date, and you have removed most of the friction between your guests and your front door. Everything they need, one link, no chasing. That is the whole job.

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